Today, reflecting on some events that happened in the past days at the compass, with some guests we decided the theme of 'emotions . Affective understanding not only between men and women, but also as a friendly relationship that exist between people who are living a state of malaise ...
We help more? It has been more supportive ... or is a constant war between the poor? It creates some real friends?
And what about the male-female relationships, as they live? What are the major difficulties that are found? What has changed respect "to the first?
Addressing this issue is not easy, takes each person to explore a small part of the problem itself perhaps buried under the house, work, self-sufficiency, health ... but an ember that if one blows, shines. It is also bright red.
We decided to open this discussion about all visitors to the Day Centre, picking up the different points of view and experiences about ... difficult task??
We'll find out soon ...
G., M. and Silvia
Sometimes writing about feelings is something difficult, confusing, painful ... we tried to talk to some Guests of this topic, limiting the discussion to the people most affected and they proved willing to open up in a way so intimate and delicate.
The first observation, a little 'bitter, coming out from the start of our discussion, is that "there are no friends on the street," and they tell me M. and G. bitter, but almost resigned to this reality. They tell me that everyone tries to make friends "what has the cigarettes, what right has the knowledge, who have money in that time," but when your luck turns, "friends" disappear ... tell me that in their lives "street" did not encounter any real person, no friend sincere ... It 's M. that tells me how to have just leads people to be a real war for a slice of bread each take their things tight and eyes wide open! These statements make me raises a question: why, if it is all in the same boat, no rowing in the same direction? It 's hard to explain, M. tells me that everyone thinks for themselves, everyone thinks to escape, try to get out of this situation without the risk to someone else ... the conversation takes a turn in a busy, but also hard ...
But the words became more sparse when we start talking about the relationship with women: Daniel, the first to go and smoke a cigarette, jokes and Zé Femen few suits and hip brute "with the remaining falter.
G. is the first to tell me that a person in the street, before thinking about a relationship with a woman, must solve the problem of home, work, autonomy ... and then and then and then ... and then comes the thought of a woman : Even the sex drive seems to be buried so many problems.
"But how can p 
iacere to a woman if you do not even have a house to take her to dinner ???!!", M. tells me that the thought goes to his emotional situation to the" first "to be on the road: he, a woman had it, but it has been burned, and almost seems no longer want to know. I tell couples that have formed in the street, still living situations of hardship: he explains how difficult it is for them to have their own inner life in a structure such as the Asylum Night Club, where men and women sleep in separate dormitories
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Many questions and answers are not all there, some of these are almost leaked the idea that in certain "extreme" conditions of human life, some types of relationships are gradually wear out until it disappears: friendship, love, solidarity concepts seem so far away ... away by choice or by compulsion ... because life, with its problems, its unexpected, its mocking jokes has led us not to believe?
M., G., Daniele, Simone e Silvia
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